I have done a lot of observing of this system in my DSRT on highway drives. Usually, I can feel it go on and off, but sometimes it is subtle if the road is rougher. Anyway, if you tune the center stack to the fuel economy page, you will see the light to know for sure when its on or off. I have found that when it comes on at the speeds I usually cruise at like 80-85 out on the open road, it doesn't take but a hint of throttle to either accelerate slightly, or when the elevation goes slightly uphill, to turn it off.
My conclusion is, having the system on board helped Dodge during their certification testing in controlled environments get some kind of brownie points with the fed's. But in the real world, unless you are travelling in super flat terrain at a speed low enough to keep it on for a long time, I doubt it is helping mpg a whole lot. I could be wrong, but I agree with Brett that if you get +1 mpg out of it, you're doing great. Not to mention the nausea I feel when I feel it going on and off, on and off, ... just thinking about the 4 lifters locking pins and springs and the solenoids just cycling away their life and wondering how long I'll get until the system takes a dump on me at an inopportune time and I have to teardown the top of the engine to fix it all...
And any money in gas saved over the life of the system until it fails will likely be small in comparison to the cost to fix or get rid of it.